Do you settle when it comes to men? Have you had enough of selling yourself short in relationships? Are you ready to receive God's desired mate for you? If so, this book is a must read!
This book will help you:
God is calling His daughters back to Him. It is time to come out of relationships that are not pleasing to God. God sent me to tell you “Enough is enough!” He is tired of his daughters having itching ears. Stop believing false prophecies that so and so is your husband. Do not believe every spirit that is talking to you. God taught me this lesson first hand.
While a babe in Christ I attended a church service where I heard a spirit say to me, “He is your husband.” The “he” the spirit was talking about was the pastor of the church. This pastor was single and had been for years. The women in the church thought that he was their husband as well. I heard the voice of the Lord say to me, “Rebuke that spirit in the name of Jesus.” “Shake it off of you and command it to leave the service.” I did exactly as God said. I literally saw the spirit run out of the church! Before this point, I had never thought about this man in that way. I did not find him attractive nor was he my type. I thank God for the Holy Spirit, having an ear to hear the voice of truth and obeying. After that incident, I refused to go back to that church. There are still women to this day who are attending this church and still believe they are his wife.
For a time is coming when people will no longer listen to sound and wholesome teaching. They will follow their own desires and will look for teachers who will tell them whatever their itching ears want to hear. They will reject the truth and chase after myths. 2 Timothy 4:3-4 AMP
God is not going to send you on some wild goose chase after a man that is not your husband. He is able to speak to a man concerning you being his wife. He does not need your help. Besides, it is not in our makeup to chase after a man but our desperation makes us do so! This type of thing happens because we tend to read more into a situation than it really is. Let me explain. If this man has not spoken to you beyond small talk after a few months, do not assume that he wants you or that you are the one. Just because he smiled at you do not mean he wants you. Men know exactly what they want and whom they want to marry! If you are the one, he will not let you get away. If your man has not asked you to marry him after a year, you need to move on. Why waste two or more years of your life waiting on him to decide if you are worth marrying or not. If he has asked you to marry him with a ring as proof and a date has not been set after a few months you need to give back the ring and move on. More than likely, the ring was given so that you would stop nagging him about marrying you. You are wasting your time waiting for him to decide on a wedding date. Come out of the delusion (a fixed belief that is false, fanciful, or derived from deception). Get yourself together. Stop fornicating! Stop cohabitating! Move on!
God’s prophet Juanita warned us years ago with “No More Sheets.” We obeyed for a while, and then we turned back to our wicked ways and committed adultery against God. Now God is warning us again to come out of sexual sin and ungodly relationships. He wants us to be holy as He is holy. We are not to be as the foolish virgins who wasted their oil and when Jesus arrived; they did not have enough oil to get them to the wedding feast. The Lord mean serious business and I must sound the alarm once again.
While I was on my way to work one morning the Lord spoke to me and said, “Silly Woman That Ain't Your Husband.” I responded, “Lord what are you are talking about?” He said, “This is the title of your book. This is what my daughters have become. It grieves me to hear their prayers full of pain and sorrow. Their heartache could be avoided if they obey my word.” The Holy Spirit began to bring to my memory what I went through with men and the experiences of other women whom I knew. God does not like His daughters taken advantage of and He wants you to be tired of it too. The word silly is defined as weak-minded or lacking good sense, stupid or foolish.
But mark this: There will be terrible times in the
last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers
of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to
their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love,
unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal,
not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited,
lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God—having a
form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing
to do with them.
They are the kind who worm their way into homes and
gain control over weak-willed [silly] women, who are
loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of
evil desires, always learning but never able to
acknowledge the truth. 2 Timothy 3:1-7 NIV
Do you remember Sampson? God chose him before birth to fight and destroy the Philistine army. He does a good job at first then he lets his desire for foreign women pull him away. His mother and father warned him not to mess with those women. They even ask him what is wrong with the Hebrew women God chose for him. He tells them they have no flavor. He likes them exotic and erotic. Despite his parents protest he goes and hooks up with a Philistine woman named Delilah. This woman has all the right moves and she knows all the tricks. Delilah blows Sampson’s mind! Now he is lying in her bed acting all silly. Every time she thought, he had revealed the source of his strength her mob would come in to kill him. Each time Sampson fought them off. Delilah knew he was holding back on her so she used tears and cunning words to seduce him. She wants to know the secret of his strength that her people may destroy him. He has been a thorn in their side for years! Delilah’s mission is to get the job done and she is determined to do it. Sampson did not have a clue or maybe he did and decided to ignore the prior attacks on his life. We women tend to do that a lot! Sampson was displaying “silly” behavior. He falls for her tears and cunning words. You know the ones we hear from men, “I love you,” and “Baby, I would never hurt you.” Sampson spills his guts about what makes him strong and finds himself with no eyeballs, no hair, and no strength. Messing around with his ideal woman destroyed him and in the end, he died with her and her Philistine crew. Delilah name means “one who weakened, uprooted or impoverished. She did what her name described!
Drink waters out of your own cistern [of a pure
marriage relationship], and fresh running waters out
of your own well. Should your offspring be dispersed
abroad as water brooks in the streets?
[Confine yourself to your own wife] let your children be for
you alone, and not the children of strangers with you.
Let your fountain [of human life] be blessed [with the
rewards of fidelity], and rejoice in the wife of your
youth. Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant doe
[tender, gentle, attractive]--let her bosom satisfy
you at all times, and always be transported with
delight in her love. Why should you, my son, be
infatuated with a loose woman, embrace the bosom of an
outsider, and go astray? Proverbs 5:15-20 Amplified
After my older sister divorced, she dated married and involved men. One particular man she dated, the relationship lasted about 10 years. “Brian” would always come over our house to see my sister and they would sit on the couch and have open displays of affection in front of everyone. It did not even matter if a child was in the room. Eventually they would head to her bedroom to take care of business. There was nothing but sex between them anyway. He rarely took her anywhere. Nobody liked him and we came not to like her as well. She would talk about his wife like a dog. She never stopped to think all the information she was getting about his wife was from him. You cannot believe what a married man tells you about his wife and their life together. He will tell you what you want to hear to keep having sex with you. Toward the end of their ten years together, my sister became sick. One day she went into a diabetic coma while I was driving her to the hospital. Before she passed out, she gave her life to Christ. She was in a coma for three days and on the third day, she woke up. She came home from the hospital and when he found out she was home he came over. Four months later, my sister was dead.
The night she died, I had a dream that my sister was sitting on a witness stand. She looked beautiful. God was sitting on the throne as judge. Jesus and I were standing next to one another. I began to beg my sister to accept Jesus as Lord of her life. She refused my words as Christ himself stood there with me. My sister crossed her arms over her chest like a rebellious child and suddenly her eyes burst into flames. I woke out of my sleep praying in tongues and jumped out of bed. While I was asking the Lord why he allowed me see this I saw a big black demon come through the wall were my sister was sleeping on the couch and grab her by the wrist. He was big and I knew he was the demon who took people straight to hell. He yanked her up off the couch. She fought him but nothing stopped him. Iasked the Lord let me go help her and he told me do not open the door and stay in the room. I thought about my niece who was out there with her and I thanked God my children decided not to sleep with my sister this particular night. I was still praying in tongues and I heard my nephew come out of his room and go to the bathroom then back into his room. I thought it was strange that he did not go to the kitchen as he always did at night. The demon pulled her through the wall like a kite blown by the wind. I said to God, “How am I going to go to sleep after seeing all this”?
He then said to me, “Sit down,” I sat. “Lie down,” I laid down. “Close your eyes and go to sleep.” I did. I woke up the next morning and went to the bathroom. I brushed my teeth and as I was washing my face, I heard my niece yell, “Theresa my mom is unresponsive, help!” I went into the living room and I started yelling for my nephew to help us. He pulled her off the couch while I dialed 911. As I was talking to the operator my nephew looked at me and said there is no need for the ambulance to come she is dead and has been for a few hours, call the morgue.